No longer babies, some teens take to ‘soiling the nest'

Roseanne Buckley’s 18-year-old son experienced a change in mood during his senior year of high school, exhibiting out-of-character behavior such as getting his ear pierced and developing a more defiant attitude. This behavior, known as “soiling the nest,” is a normal phase of teenagers asserting independence before heading off to college. Parents should understand that this phase is not personal and should not take it personally. Psychologists advise parents to give their teenagers space while still providing guidance and support. Teens leaving for college may push their families away as they navigate the transition to independence. It is important for parents to prioritize the emotional well-being of their younger children as they adjust to their older sibling moving out.